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    The person you choose to be

    Quick thought: “The good old days” is an illusion. I’m sure we’ve always had terrible people among us — we just didn’t have all these social media to blow it up right in your face, as well as, apparently, some of the worst of people with some type of “influence” encouraging such behaviors.   We had time to breathe back then, it seems. We had time and space to believe the world was a certain way…because we couldn’t see all of it at once. Now that we can see, it’s up to us to choose what person we’re going to be. So what person will you choose to be?

  • Self-expression and Human Relations

    What do you do when you’re sad, happy, or angry? How do you let other people know what you’re feeling, should they need to know? Notice any patterns of behavior in the way you express your emotions? That’s your way of self-expression and it’s part of your personality. Don’t you usually feel better after you say something that you might’ve wanted to “get off your chest”? When you express those feelings or concerns, be it to someone else or to yourself, the weigh may come off right away. That is because being heard and understood are crucial for a stable emotional state. But expressing your thoughts and feelings doesn’t always…

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    A Most True Definition of Sexy

    Here is the definition of sexy, as per the Merriam-Webster dictionary: Sexy: adjective \ ˈsek-sē \ 1 : sexually suggestive or stimulating : erotic 2 : generally attractive or interesting : appealing Here is my definition of sexy: Based on the meaning that something or someone sexy is intended to evoke desire, I long ago concluded the following: “Sexy” is not just something you push up with a bra, or tame with spandex, or lift with squats, or wear on your lips, or flatten with an iron, or pay for at the surgeon. Sexy is in the way you express and carry yourself; it’s in a confident smile, it’s in…