I get the tradition. Believe me, I get the tradition. The want and the need to “become one” when you’re in love; the excitement of the “forever” promise when a couple says, “I do.” The search for the perfect dress that comes after for some women… I get it all.  But I also get that, that thrill, is the result of learned behavior. We’ve been conditioned to believe that an expensive ring closes the deal; that it proves how “in love” your partner is and that, as a result, you must be “the one” if he/she proposed, right? So cute yet so silly.  Question is: is it a demonstration of…