‘Tis the season to spread kindness, and it got me thinking: how can we help the needy? I was “outside” quite a lot these past few days and was reminded of how broken the system and humans are. Some are broken for reasons not under their control, and the system because they can’t help the broken people. They say that kindness in the world starts with you. I’m guilty of blaming “society” for our vicious cycles, forgetting sometimes that we collectively are society. So in recent years I started calling myself out whenever I noticed a pattern of behavior that needs to be unlearned.  What changes do I want to…